Oh, it's that!
Thanks for pointing the culprit out. I already got tired of hunting it. ?
Got past that by just hexing the recommended, I thought that I want to get the server working before carefully starting to modify anything to my liking. That way I should at least know what causes possible problems. worked fine, until more problems. lol.
But your input is highly appreciated, saved a lot of time and grey hairs (as if I'd have any anyways).