alrighty, well it looks like the client isnt even reaching the server at all,
have you changed your firewall settings? Personally i opened those ports to make sure that wouldnt block it just in case, might work. youll also need to forward your router's ports to your address.
if you have already
try changing your IP's back to 127.0.0.1 and change your clientinfo.xml to at least make sure everything is configure correctly.
leave packet_db at default till the end, makes building a little safer for now. (basically so you wont forget if you ever need to change clients)