How can I make it so PMs show up in the chat window instead of new windows?

[Raikumi]

In the title.

When people warp, their PMs are gone which makes it hard to quest and PM at the same time.

I realize that I can go to ALT +Z and friend setup, but I want it to stay off for everyone by default. It resets every time I start the client

[Brynner]

client version you are using?

[Reducto]

Alt+H, then go to Friend Setup. Untick the two options.