Alright....
So ive tested this with 2 different root servers located in different datacenters from different server companys:
clean conf / db with only sql set:
[info]: Session #3 timed out
[status]: Map-server #0 has disconnected.
[status]: Map-Server 0 connected: 834 maps, from IP 188.138.122.102 port 5121.
[status]: Map-server 0 loading complete.
[status]: Map-server #0 has disconnected.
[status]: Map-Server 0 connected: 834 maps, from IP 188.138.122.102 port 5121.
[status]: Map-server 0 loading complete.
[status]: Map-server #0 has disconnected.
[status]: Map-Server 0 connected: 834 maps, from IP 188.138.122.102 port 5121.
[status]: Map-server 0 loading complete.
[status]: Map-server #0 has disconnected.
[status]: Map-Server 0 connected: 834 maps, from IP 188.138.122.102 port 5121.
[status]: Map-server 0 loading complete.
[status]: Map-server #0 has disconnected.
[status]: Map-Server 0 connected: 834 maps, from IP 188.138.122.102 port 5121.
[status]: Map-server 0 loading complete.
[status]: Map-server #0 has disconnected.
[status]: Map-Server 0 connected: 834 maps, from IP 188.138.122.102 port 5121.
[status]: Map-server 0 loading complete.
[status]: Map-server #0 has disconnected.
[status]: Map-Server 0 connected: 834 maps, from IP 188.138.122.102 port 5121.
[status]: Map-server 0 loading complete.
[status]: Map-server #0 has disconnected.
[status]: Map-Server 0 connected: 834 maps, from IP 188.138.122.102 port 5121.
[status]: Map-server 0 loading complete.
[status]: Map-server #0 has disconnected.
[status]: Map-Server 0 connected: 834 maps, from IP 188.138.122.102 port 5121.
[status]: Map-server 0 loading complete.
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the ports are set in the firewall,
tested with fully set conf/db still the same on both,
tested with new sql database,
tested with debug recompiles,
tested with release recompiles,
tested with webserver offfline,
the servers are Windows servers 64bit.
Server 1:
4x 2GHZ, 8GB DDR3 RAM
Server 2:
8x 2.4GHZ 32GB DDR3 RAM
doesnt matter what i change in the conf/db/port it just doesnt stop disconnecting ingame.
while the disconnect is the game freezes ingame until its reconnected making it unplayable...