problem flux cp on my website

[Fluxion]

Hello, first sorry if I'm wrong place to post my problem. I look for several days (11 days more exactly) to install my fluxcp on my website but I still have this error message:

Error: PDOException

Message: SQLSTATE [HY000] [2002] Connection refused

see details on the screenshot.

 

having tried a lot of things, no way to succeed in installing it.

Apparently it would be because I do not have a user accepting an external connection to my dedicated server. yet I did everything I was told for but it still does not work.

Someone could make a tutorial with screenshot on the support so that can install my theme fluxcp?
knowing that locally I get there but as I try online it does not work.
waiting for an answer and sorry for my english I'm not english

Yuno cordially

[Fluxion]

Up!

someone to help me please without that my server will not see the day it's over I just miss the website

[x13th]

There's many reason why this is happening. Can you tell us what steps you've done trying to solve this problem?

[alelelo]

i have the some problem... in any site i read that the problem is a permission in phpmyadmin but i can't solve...

[LearningRO]

are you use the right user and password for you MySQL?

[x13th]

Check your SQL credentials and the user privilege.